Tag Archives: women

Shit You Should Never Say to Your Man

Yes this is a throwback, but every once in a while the ladies (including myself) need a reminder to mind our P's and Q's. Plus it's one of my favourite posts ever ...

Are You a Nag?
  • February 1, 2012

    That women nag seems to be a forgone conclusion of life. As sure as the skies are blue, 1+1=3, and Jay-Z is the greatest rapper alive, Women nag. They nag about ...

    Do You Submit to Your Man?
  • January 5, 2012

    "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord" (Ephesians 5:22)

    Dads & Daughters
  • January 4, 2012

    I have the best dad in the world. I know a lot of people say that, but in my case it happens to be true. Anyone who has ever met my dad can attest to the fact that ...

    Shit Girls Say
  • December 21, 2011

    I'm not much of a YouTube watcher. Although much of my professional decisions are made based on the universal presence that YouTube=drugs, the truth is I find it a ...

    Stupid Bitch Moves
  • December 7, 2011

    I like to think of myself as an equal opportunity blogger. And a gender agnostic. Men and women alike do shit that irritates me greatly and so I try to make sure I ...

    Never Say This To a Man
  • December 6, 2011

    Ah men. If ever there were a more frustrating, more infuriating, more baffling creature than a man in a relationship, I don't know what it is. Nothing, but nothing, ...

    The Easiest Thing (You’re Not Doing) To Make Your Girl Happy
  • November 9, 2011

    If I have one great talent in life it's knowing how things should be done. I can walk into just about any situation, get the lay of the land, and say "here are all ...

    Oh You Can’t Get Sex? Here’s Why.
  • October 25, 2011

    Last week we touched on a very hot topic around these parts - whether it's easy for a woman to get sex when she wants it. The women said no, the men said yes, and ...

    Ask Max: Can I Go it Alone?
  • September 12, 2011

    And we're back with another edition of Ask Max Mondays. This week we have a question from a woman trying to navigate life in a new city. Read her question and my ...

    Don’t Do Girlfriend Shit
  • August 30, 2011

    So the homey Malik is back with another guest post. This time he’s schooling ladies on what not to do in a friends with benefits situation if you don’t ...

    Girls to Watch
  • August 10, 2011

    I’m all for the power of sisterhood. At least I am right now while I’m still aglow from my all-girls vacation. Friendship among females is a beautiful ...

    When Girls Get Together
  • August 3, 2011

    And I’m back! I apologize again for disappearing on you guys even though you obviously didn’t miss me much since not one of you hit me up to ask me why I ...

    The Damsel in Distress
  • July 19, 2011

    So those of you who follow me on twitter might have seen my tweets about my shopping excursion last night. If you missed it, I tweeted that I was on my way to buy ...

    What Is It With Cuddling?
  • June 29, 2011

    The homey Malik recently schooled me on a phenomenon that traumatized the shit out of me: the cuddle buddy. Apparently there are men and women in the world who get ...

    He Never Says I’m Pretty
  • June 23, 2011

    A few months ago a man told me I was very beautiful. And since he didn't say it during sex, I believe he meant it and I have to say it floored me.

    A Rant, An Impassioned Plea

    Only a few days left of voting for the Black Weblog Awards. Please head over here to vote for me. Please! Yesterday the homey @MalikPanama sent me a rant apropos of ...

    Getting Your Mojo Back
  • May 31, 2011

    So thanks to you – best readers ever – I topped what I did last year and am nominated for four Black Weblog Awards! You guys fucking rock. Now you know ...

    How to Argue (A Guide for Women)
  • May 24, 2011

    So thanks to you – best readers ever – I topped what I did last year and am nominated for four Black Weblog Awards! You guys fucking rock. Now you know ...

    A Dude, a Lady, and a Little Girl

    The other night I had a phone conversation with the spectacular asshole that can best be described as epic. Not just because of the content of the convo, but because ...

    The After-Sex Phone Call
  • March 9, 2011

    Conversations among girlfriends about the first time one of them slams a dude can vary wildly depending on many things. If the sex was good the discussion will be ...

    Snooping: A Rant and The Rules

    So today we’re talking about snooping and I’m doing a combo move. A video rant about how very much I wish women would stop doing this shit. And the rules ...

    Your Multi-Penis Policy
  • March 3, 2011

    When you are a single woman trying to keep your parts oiled it’s imperative to give some thought to the issue of multiple sex partners. One of the beautiful ...

    Whores Finish First

    I came across this post the other day on Jean DeGrate‘s blog and I almost choked to death laughing at it. He has graciously agreed to let me share it with you. ...

    Can You Claim Him?
  • February 28, 2011

    So I’m back with another reader question. Read the question below and then watch the video to see my answer. I have “seeing” a guy for about 3 ...

    Are You Stupid?
  • February 24, 2011

    The natural result of being a relationship blogger is that everyone wants to talk to me about their relationship issues. I don't mind it at all - part of the reason ...

    Call It Your P*ssy (A @drjayjack guest post)
  • February 17, 2011

    The Well Respected and Connected Dr. J is back to bless us with another guest appearance.

    So You Smashed the Homie
  • February 16, 2011

    As you can see, I’m trying something different today. I’ve been getting lots of requests for video content so I’ve decided that whenever I get a ...

    P*ssy Pic Etiquette
  • January 18, 2011

    Ah the pussy picture. First I told you not to do it.  Then I ate my words. Now I am of the firm belief that the ability to take a hot coochie shot is an essential ...

    No, We Actually Can’t Have Sex Any Time We Want
  • January 12, 2011

    If you subscribe to the theory that a way of thinking can be assigned to a gender, I definitely tend to think more like a man than like a woman. But if there is one ...

    The So-Called Good Girl
  • November 24, 2010

    "Good girls say "no;" bad girls ask "when?""

    5 Women You Don’t Want To Befriend
  • November 18, 2010

    Notwithstanding yesterday’s post, female friendship is a beautiful thing. Something special happens when women get together and it can be so intoxicating that ...

    Am I Crazy?
  • November 15, 2010

    If, like me, you are a frequent consumer of dating and relationship blogs, you've probably come across many a discussion about crazy women. It seems that men these ...

    Bad Bedroom Moves for Ladies
  • October 22, 2010

    There are few things in life that provide more opportunity for self-expression than sex. With the right combination of people, a simple “insert tab A into slot ...

    Silly Little Girls
  • September 23, 2010

    If there is a female equivalent to the panty meat man it is the silly little girl. And lord let me tell you this bish is just as frustrating as that guy. For grown ...

    Much as I Loved It, Hate it Now
  • September 15, 2010

    Let me tell you about the kind of men that I love – smart (at least as smart as I am), insightful, articulate, well-hung, highly sought-after, in love with ...

    The Art of the Chase (Throwback Tuesdays)

    In the old days, when I had my eye on a dude, I had one strategy: shameless and reckless pursuit. And although this method made for some great stories, it never ...

    The Great Guy and the Regular Chick
  • July 21, 2010

    Only a few days left to nominate me and my blogging buddies for the Black Weblog Awards…have you done it yet? Last night I was gossiping talking to a ...

    Who Told You to Have Feelings (Throwback Tuesdays)

    Only a few days left to nominate me and my blogging buddies for the Black Weblog Awards…have you done it yet? Observe this conversation between fcuk buddies: ...

    Good Looks for Girls
  • June 21, 2010

    If you're a longtime or dedicated reader of mine you know that I am a throwback girl. I'm that handwash your dirty draws, Cater to You is my theme song, wake up at ...

    Guest Post – Getting In The Path of Destruction

    It's that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you do) by ...

    Not Such a Proper Young Lady
  • May 5, 2010

    Some tidbits about me: Among my favourite songs (click title to read the lyrics): Wildflower – Ghostface Killah Stapleton Sex – Ghostface Killah Oochie ...

    The No-Cry Zone
  • April 21, 2010

    As a woman who is blessed with many male friends, I hear a lot of stories about sex. First-time sex in particular. And lately I’ve noticed an alarming trend ...

    5 Reasons Why You Didn’t Count
  • April 16, 2010

    Love is a game and we all have a score. But unfortunately for all of us, your score isn’t calculated based on your virtues, it’s based on your bedmates. ...

    PSA for Ladies – The Toilet Seat is not that Deep
  • March 29, 2010

    I've been meaning to rant on this for a minute and now the time has come. Ladies I'm talking to you today and I have only one question: what is it with you and the ...

    The Next Girl
  • March 24, 2010

     Even when they’re done properly, there are a lot of things that suck about breakups. The missing, the crying, the what-ifs, the things he left behind – ...

    Is the grass ever greener?
  • January 28, 2010

    The dearth of romance in relationships is something I touched on in yesterday’s post; and judging from the feedback I got, it’s a hot topic for a lot of ...

    Things Women Shouldn’t Say to Men
  • January 27, 2010

    I don’t usually write response posts, but Slim Jackson’s Things Men Shouldn’t Say to Women  had me howling…and got me thinking. Slim is right on the ...

    The High Maintenance Woman
  • January 19, 2010

    I was reading one of Christianaa’s rants the other day about high maintenance women. It was interesting and of course set the little wheels in my brain spinning. ...