Tag Archives: sex

Possession (50 Shades of Hot)
  • April 2, 2012

    I have a new obsession. Not that I needed one more thing to distract me from work, my friends, my workouts, and my blog; but my new compulsion is a dirty little itch ...

    But I Don’t Want To (A Nasty Friday Pickle)
  • January 27, 2012

    So you've found a dude and your parts are getting oiled on a regular. Congrats girl. Good on you. And bonus points if it's good and not political. Book yourself some ...

    A Couple’s Best Friend
  • December 9, 2011

    So my friends over at Lelo have come through with another amazing toy for me to school you on.

    Oh You Can’t Get Sex? Here’s Why.
  • October 25, 2011

    Last week we touched on a very hot topic around these parts - whether it's easy for a woman to get sex when she wants it. The women said no, the men said yes, and ...

    Reopening A Can of Worms (Still can’t have sex whenever we want)
  • October 18, 2011

    One of my very favourite things about this blog is getting feedback from my readers. I love it when people write me and tell me they love the blog and I love it even ...

    The 10 Commandments of Casual Sex
  • September 21, 2011

    As you guys know, I'm a big fan of casual sex. Not necessarily for me personally, but as a concept. Just had to make that clear. But what you might not know about me ...

    How to Be a Jump Off Without Ruining Your Self-Esteem
  • August 24, 2011

    As a lover of sex and a shunner of monogamy, I hold casual sex relationships in very high regard. I believe in them. And I know from personal experience that they ...

    The Quiet Fuck
  • August 11, 2011

    Let me tell you a story: once I fucked a man I'd wanted to fuck for a really long time. When the moment came that I knew it was finally going to happen, I was so ...

    So You Wanna Be a Freak
  • July 21, 2011

    The thing about being a female sex and relationships blogger is that people tend to expect things of you. Readers look to you for answers, friends expect you to ...

    The Zipless F*ck
  • July 8, 2011

    Another Friday night at another club with your girls. Your little clique dispersed ages ago; and you stand off to the side, watching the crowd and wondering why you ...

    Deflowering a Virgin
  • July 4, 2011

    So I received a great advice question via email the other day and I thought today would be a great day for a video post since the majority of you are not working. Oh ...

    My First Time
  • May 23, 2011

    So thanks to you – best readers ever – I topped what I did last year and am nominated for four Black Weblog Awards! You guys fucking rock. Now you know ...

    I Wanna F*ck You
  • May 6, 2011

    A few weeks ago I asked a random man if I could touch his hair. He had long, beautiful, well-tended to locks and the urge to feel them in my hands outweighed the ...

    5 Must-Have F*cks
  • April 29, 2011

    Here’s your daily reminder to please nominate me for a Black Weblog Award. Or two. Or four and we can top last year. Go here to get all the instructions and ...

    Am I Bad in Bed?
  • April 13, 2011

    Confession: the comments on Monday’s post gave me a bit of a complex. Now I’m not the woman in the scenario, but I felt for her. Like I said, I’ve ...

    Did He Use Me for Sex?
  • April 11, 2011

    So I’m back with another reader advice question. Check out the question and my answer and then weigh in in the comments. So I met this guy about 8 months ago ...

    Beauty and the Beast – Strip clubs vs. Burlesque Shows

    One last guest post for you guys while I recover from my epic weekend in DC. Today we have Nubian Empress of Kinetic Culture extolling the virtues of burlesque ...

    Mastering Missionary

    In the world of media strategy, we use different tactics to elicit different reactions. We might make an ad with a game in it to get people to interact with our ...

    The After-Sex Phone Call
  • March 9, 2011

    Conversations among girlfriends about the first time one of them slams a dude can vary wildly depending on many things. If the sex was good the discussion will be ...

    The last epic sex I had
  • March 4, 2011

    A couple of weeks ago I was out with a group of friends. I should have been having a good time but I was horny and couldn't stop thinking about my secret lover and ...

    Your Multi-Penis Policy
  • March 3, 2011

    When you are a single woman trying to keep your parts oiled it’s imperative to give some thought to the issue of multiple sex partners. One of the beautiful ...

    The Beautiful Backshot
  • February 25, 2011

    We have another Nasty Friday guest post this week courtesy of @AO1379 who is paying homage to the wonderful backshot. Give him a warm and nasty welcome. There are ...

    I had sex today
  • February 18, 2011

    There are many good reasons to love sex. That exquisite moment when the cock slides its full length into the pussy. The sounds of bodies slamming into each other, ...

    Call It Your P*ssy (A @drjayjack guest post)
  • February 17, 2011

    The Well Respected and Connected Dr. J is back to bless us with another guest appearance.

    So You Smashed the Homie
  • February 16, 2011

    As you can see, I’m trying something different today. I’ve been getting lots of requests for video content so I’ve decided that whenever I get a ...

    Sex Manners (You be the judge)
  • February 7, 2011

    I heard an interesting story the other day about this girl I used to be friends with. Apparently she was long-distance dating a dude who lived in Ohio and after the ...

    Unchartered Waters
  • January 25, 2011

    Confession: I have a crush. This is not exactly breaking news, considering that I am rarely without one. But this latest crush is different. I don’t know this ...

    The Dramatic Structure of Sex
  • January 21, 2011

    The other night I had the most delicious daydream.

    Sex, Smut, and Porn (All I Need in This Life of Sin)
  • January 20, 2011

    I cannot start any more posts talking about the fact that I love sex. You guys already know this. Sex to me is the most important factor in my well-being. When ...

    P*ssy Pic Etiquette
  • January 18, 2011

    Ah the pussy picture. First I told you not to do it.  Then I ate my words. Now I am of the firm belief that the ability to take a hot coochie shot is an essential ...

    The Men Weigh In
  • January 17, 2011

    So! Last week was quite interesting over here, wasn't it?

    Oh Baby I Like It Rough
  • January 14, 2011

    A couple of nights ago, armed with my new laptop and a blessedly empty apartment, I settled down to watch some porn.

    So Who Was Right?
  • January 13, 2011

    Well! We had quite the interesting day over here yesterday, didn't we? For those of you who missed it, we had a lengthy debate about whether a woman can get sex any ...

    No, We Actually Can’t Have Sex Any Time We Want
  • January 12, 2011

    If you subscribe to the theory that a way of thinking can be assigned to a gender, I definitely tend to think more like a man than like a woman. But if there is one ...

    You on Top
  • December 10, 2010

    In all the years that I was with my first love, I don't think I ever rode his dick. I have no idea what the reasoning for this was, but I can only assume it was some ...

    I Wish Someone Would: The Narcolepsy Edition
  • December 6, 2010

      And we’re back with another edition of I Wish Someone Would. This is a good one. Ready? Let’s begin. Okay so Man and Woman meet. They talk on the ...

    I Tried it. And I Liked it.
  • December 3, 2010

    As I mentioned somewhere around here recently, I wasn’t always a dirty bird. I know – it’s hard for me to believe too but it’s true. Until I ...

    How Safe is Your Sex?
  • December 1, 2010

    So I have a little story for you. As some of you guys know, in addition to this blog I also write a Sex Etiquette column on a site called PinkMafia.ca. One day I was ...

    I Wish Someone Would: The Booty Call Edition
  • November 30, 2010

    I heard a story the other day that blew my mind. It was so ridiculous I wished it had happened to me so that I could blog about it. I wanted to know what my dear ...

    Dirty Things I’ve Never Done
  • November 19, 2010

    It’s a common misconception that people who blog about sex get it a lot and it’s epic. And while that is definitely might be true, even us bloggers have ...

    Signature Sex Moves
  • November 12, 2010

    The story of me losing my virginity is so crazily epic that the actual sex has gotten lost in the details. When I tell the story (which I am not going to do here ...

    5 Men I Would Like to Sleep With
  • November 10, 2010

    So we’ve talked about the men I can’t stand, the men I might not date, and the men I’m convinced don’t exist. Let’s spend some time ...

    Bad Bedroom Moves for Men
  • November 5, 2010

    A couple of weeks ago I schooled the ladies on shit they shouldn’t be pulling in the bedroom. Men now it’s your turn. 1. The Jackhammer Okay really ...

    Bad Bedroom Moves for Ladies
  • October 22, 2010

    There are few things in life that provide more opportunity for self-expression than sex. With the right combination of people, a simple “insert tab A into slot ...

    Faux Sex
  • October 15, 2010

    As much as I love the peen, I’m pretty selective about which ones I allow to play in my garden despite what you may have heard. This of course leads to ...

    Make it Mo’Better
  • October 8, 2010

    Personally I like my sex au naturel; no frills, no soundtrack, no condoms, no soft lighting, no foreplay, and no accoutrements. To add these types of garnishes to an ...

    5 Random Things that Get My Motor Running
  • October 5, 2010

    If you measure horniness on a scale of 1-10, my resting rate is about a 4. I’m never not at least a little bit revved up and it doesn’t take much to push ...

    Revisiting In Through the Out Door
  • September 23, 2010

    I’m uninspired this week so we’re throwing it back to one of the first Nasty Friday posts. Enjoy and I’ll have something fresh for you next week. ...

    An Ode to Balls
  • September 17, 2010

    If penis is my one true love, balls are my eternal sidepiece. I really don’t know what it is about balls, but I effing love sucking them. They are just hours ...