Tag Archives: men

An Interesting Take on Manscaping
  • May 10, 2012

    My theory on manscaping has always been very simple: Do it. Or yes please. There is no reason for you to have your woman choking or pulling hair out of her teeth ...

    The Chuck Bass
  • April 16, 2012

    If you follow me on twitter you may have noticed my random tweets about shit that happened on Gossip Girl a long time ago. True to my essential slow-class nature, I ...

    The Biggest Panty Meat Move Ever
  • December 1, 2011

    Warning: this is a rant. As far as I know, I don't write many rant posts, but I'm pissed off today and I have to make it known. So indulge me just this once as I ...

    Eff Yo Video Game!
  • November 22, 2011

    There's a new breed of women around. You'll recognize them by their haunted eyes, the angry set of their mouths. They're everywhere you go, a little bit ...

    Subliminal Questions, Failed Tests, and Non-Answers
  • October 27, 2011

    "If he snaps, then you know you got him. And there's no need to go, is there? But if he tries to act all cool and shit, you just gon' have to go teach his ass a lesson".

    Reopening A Can of Worms (Still can’t have sex whenever we want)
  • October 18, 2011

    One of my very favourite things about this blog is getting feedback from my readers. I love it when people write me and tell me they love the blog and I love it even ...

    Mr. Nice Guy
  • September 15, 2011

    As those of you who are close to me know, I'm going through a bit of a mid-life crisis. And yes I realize that usually happens to people in their mid-fifties, but I ...

    White Guys that Black Girls Love
  • September 14, 2011

    Everyone who knows me knows I don't date white guys. Tried it, didn't work, not doing it again, not getting into it in today's post. It's a wrap for me and the white ...

    He’s Not You
  • September 13, 2011

    Yesterday when I heard the sound of my gchat go off in the afternoon I knew it was you. We haven't talked in a while and I miss you and figure you must miss me too. ...

    Don’t Do Boyfriend Shit
  • August 31, 2011

    In keeping with this week's apparent theme of how to behave in ambiguous relationships, I'm here today to school you men.

    Man Logic

     You guys know I love men. I think they are vastly superior creatures in every way. They’re funnier, they’re dirtier, and they just make sense. Well, ...

    Max & The Corny Dudes
  • August 16, 2011

    I've been laying off the video posts lately since some guy called me ugly when I posted the last video as a lot of you have mentioned in your responses to my reader ...

    Dear Mr. Mindf*ck
  • August 9, 2011

    Dear Mr. Mindfuck, I am writing to tell you that I am done with you. I know it seems counter-intuitive to do so. I know that the best way to let you know I'm done ...

    Mind of a Woman
  • July 27, 2011

    Yesterday my homey and birthday twin @BrazenlyVirile wrote an awesome post on his blog about the things he notices about a woman.  I already knew he was a different ...

    When I Like Someone
  • July 13, 2011

    One of the best things for me about being single is having no shortage of mantertainment. Although I've gone through droughts in the past, at this point in my life I ...

    What Is It With Cuddling?
  • June 29, 2011

    The homey Malik recently schooled me on a phenomenon that traumatized the shit out of me: the cuddle buddy. Apparently there are men and women in the world who get ...

    You and Your Dick Pics
  • June 27, 2011

    At some point in relatively recent history I made a bet with a man. It was one of those bets that you know you can’t lose so I made the stakes ridiculously ...

    He Never Says I’m Pretty
  • June 23, 2011

    A few months ago a man told me I was very beautiful. And since he didn't say it during sex, I believe he meant it and I have to say it floored me.

    Random Reasons I Judge a Man
  • June 22, 2011

    When it comes to the men I dally with I’m not one for must-have lists. I have no income or height requirements, no minimum education level to qualify. Being ...

    Revisionist History
  • June 13, 2011

    Only a few days left of voting for the Black Weblog Awards. Please head over here to vote for me. Every woman has experienced this story at least once in her life: ...

    The Man Code
  • June 6, 2011

    At any given time in a single woman's life, she has at least three dudes who would love to smash. There's probably one that stays sniffing at her crotches even ...

    Romancing Your Man
  • May 19, 2011

    Yesterday I read a post by the beautiful @GemoftheOcean where she talked about being deprived of romance. I totally felt her on it, because I've almost never ...

    The Case of the Ex
  • May 9, 2011

    The last man I dated with any type of regularity disappeared off the face of the earth when we called it quits. I wasn’t mad because in my world, that’s ...

    The F*ckwit
  • May 5, 2011

    Here’s your daily reminder to please nominate me for a Black Weblog Award. Or two. Or four and we can top last year. Go here to get all the instructions and ...

    Bad Shoes (and Other Random Instant Turn Offs)
  • April 21, 2011

    It’s that time of year again. Nominate me for a Black Weblog Award please. Go here to get all the instructions and ish. And tell a friend to nominate me too! ...

    Somebody Else’s Man
  • April 18, 2011

    Confession: I have a thing for your man. Well not yours necessarily, but someone’s man. I don’t know what it is or when this started, but I’m ...

    Did He Use Me for Sex?
  • April 11, 2011

    So I’m back with another reader advice question. Check out the question and my answer and then weigh in in the comments. So I met this guy about 8 months ago ...

    Some Things Men Will Never Admit About Themselves
  • March 30, 2011

    When you’re in need of advice, your best bet is to ask a man. Men are more logical, less emotionally-invested, and therefore better able to be objective about a ...

    Dear Men: You Are Not Kanye
  • March 10, 2011

    I once had to ban my boyfriend from listening to Jay-Z. Now I’m as big a Jigga fan as anyone else out there but my guy was just getting out of control trying to ...

    The After-Sex Phone Call
  • March 9, 2011

    Conversations among girlfriends about the first time one of them slams a dude can vary wildly depending on many things. If the sex was good the discussion will be ...

    Can You Claim Him?
  • February 28, 2011

    So I’m back with another reader question. Read the question below and then watch the video to see my answer. I have “seeing” a guy for about 3 ...

    So You Smashed the Homie
  • February 16, 2011

    As you can see, I’m trying something different today. I’ve been getting lots of requests for video content so I’ve decided that whenever I get a ...

    5 Memos I Missed
  • February 10, 2011

    Whenever I get to talking to new people about my blog, one of the first questions that comes up is “how do know so much about sex and relationships?”. ...

    I Could Date a Broke Man
  • February 9, 2011

    I could date a broke man. In these days and times of women who are out there doing it for themselves, climbing the corporate ladder and pocketing fat paycheques, ...

    Mr. Should-be Right
  • February 2, 2011

    Of all the men I've ever dallied with, there were only two I could see myself happily married to. Snickers, with whom I had almost nothing in common but a love deep ...

    P*ssy Pic Etiquette
  • January 18, 2011

    Ah the pussy picture. First I told you not to do it.  Then I ate my words. Now I am of the firm belief that the ability to take a hot coochie shot is an essential ...

    The Men Weigh In
  • January 17, 2011

    So! Last week was quite interesting over here, wasn't it?

    So Who Was Right?
  • January 13, 2011

    Well! We had quite the interesting day over here yesterday, didn't we? For those of you who missed it, we had a lengthy debate about whether a woman can get sex any ...

    The Bookmarking Man
  • January 10, 2011

    In the battle of the sexes, men and women often throw boomerangs at each other. By this I mean that we each bemoan the other’s propensity to do effed up things ...

    The Myth of the Different Man
  • January 5, 2011

    Here are two fundamental truths about my relationship history: 1. The thing I’ve liked best about every man I’ve fallen for is how different he is from ...

    The Trouble with Male Bloggers
  • December 14, 2010

    On any given day you will find me on gchat with one or more of my e-girlfriends. And while our conversation topics range from the mundane to the truly ratched, at ...

    Do I Want an Older Dude?
  • December 7, 2010

    Let me tell you a story about my last good first date. I met the dude at a mutual friend’s New Years party. A few days after the party he sent me a nice note ...

    Your 101 Guide to Dating a Hot Boy
  • November 23, 2010

    Let me tell you a story. One morning not long before my ex and I called it quits we were outside taking out the garbage. We were late as usual so by the time we got ...

    Don’t You Like Me Anymore Redux
  • November 22, 2010

    Okay okay I’ll admit that I have been beating the topic of disappearing men to death lately but only because it recently happened to me and I’m still not ...

    The Boys Club
  • November 17, 2010

    Ever since I was a little girl I've been boy-crazy. When I go home and look back over diaries I kept from ages 13-24, I have to laugh at the fact that all I ever ...

    Don’t You Like Me Anymore?
  • November 11, 2010

    As a perpetually single gal I’ve had a fair amount of dalliances with men. Some longer than others, some more hurtful than others, some more memorable than ...

    5 Men I Would Like to Sleep With
  • November 10, 2010

    So we’ve talked about the men I can’t stand, the men I might not date, and the men I’m convinced don’t exist. Let’s spend some time ...

    Several Shades of Asshole
  • November 8, 2010

    It is a truism of the life of any single woman that you are going to encounter a few assholes on your journey to wifehood. And if you're anything like me, assholes ...

    Bad Bedroom Moves for Men
  • November 5, 2010

    A couple of weeks ago I schooled the ladies on shit they shouldn’t be pulling in the bedroom. Men now it’s your turn. 1. The Jackhammer Okay really ...

    The 5 e-Personalities of Men
  • November 3, 2010

    Back when I schooled you on the joys and pains of the e-boo relationship, I forgot to include one crucial piece of the puzzle: knowing what type of e-man you're ...

    Single by Choice Not by Chance

    If there’s anything that annoys a single, marriage-minded woman it’s a man who doesn’t want to be in a relationship. Especially because these men ...