http://www.max-logic.com

Yep. Her boyfriend is awesome and treats her better than she could ever have hoped for. He makes her smile and laugh and cum her brains out. He considers her, makes her feel special, and is charmed by her weirdness. But he's not in love with her and it makes her a little bit crazy.

The other day I listened to a couple debate about what the most important quality is to a relationship. She said love, he said trust. Then someone else chimed in and said it was respect. But you know what I think it is? Appreciation. Gratitude. Thankfulness for who that person is and for the their presence in your life.

They say that greed is a sin of excess. It's not the wanting of the thing that's bad, it's the intemperance of it. I guess. The unfairness of wanting more than someone is willing to give, more than my fair share, more than I need. It's okay to want, as long as your want doesn't surpass your need. As long as you don't take more than you deserve. Or so they say. I say fuck that.

They say that in every relationship, there is the lover and the loved. The one who exists solely to please another, and the one who allows him or herself to be pleased. The one who puts their partner above all else, and the one who prioritizes herself. The one who will be left and the one who will leave.

Yesterday when I heard the sound of my gchat go off in the afternoon I knew it was you. We haven't talked in a while and I miss you and figure you must miss me too. We've always told each other our secrets and since you've been scarce lately, you're long overdue to listen and to share right?

"The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end" - Benjamin Disraelier