Tag Archives: dating

Exclusive Dating? I Call Bullshit!
  • November 29, 2011

    Okay. So here's the situation: Boy meets Girl. They date, enjoy themselves, date some more. Feelings grow, bonds develop, they realize they don't want to date anyone ...

    Don’t Do Boyfriend Shit
  • August 31, 2011

    In keeping with this week's apparent theme of how to behave in ambiguous relationships, I'm here today to school you men.

    Don’t Do Girlfriend Shit
  • August 30, 2011

    So the homey Malik is back with another guest post. This time he’s schooling ladies on what not to do in a friends with benefits situation if you don’t ...

    No, I Don’t Want to Meet Your Mother
  • August 18, 2011

    If there’s one thing that will get the “danger” bells ringing in my brain it’s a man telling me he wants to introduce me to his mother. ...

    Max & The Corny Dudes
  • August 16, 2011

    I've been laying off the video posts lately since some guy called me ugly when I posted the last video as a lot of you have mentioned in your responses to my reader ...

    Talking to You and Hearing You Answer
  • July 14, 2011

    "Talking to you and hearing you answer - that's the kick" (Toni Morrison)

    Mixing Friends and Lovers

      As those of you who know my life story are already aware, my first love was one of my best friends for years before we ever bumped uglies. As a result, he was ...

    Intimate Talks

    The choice is yours today.

    The F*ckwit
  • May 5, 2011

    Here’s your daily reminder to please nominate me for a Black Weblog Award. Or two. Or four and we can top last year. Go here to get all the instructions and ...

    Your Multi-Penis Policy
  • March 3, 2011

    When you are a single woman trying to keep your parts oiled it’s imperative to give some thought to the issue of multiple sex partners. One of the beautiful ...

    Can You Claim Him?
  • February 28, 2011

    So I’m back with another reader question. Read the question below and then watch the video to see my answer. I have “seeing” a guy for about 3 ...

    5 Memos I Missed
  • February 10, 2011

    Whenever I get to talking to new people about my blog, one of the first questions that comes up is “how do know so much about sex and relationships?”. ...

    I Could Date a Broke Man
  • February 9, 2011

    I could date a broke man. In these days and times of women who are out there doing it for themselves, climbing the corporate ladder and pocketing fat paycheques, ...

    Mr. Should-be Right
  • February 2, 2011

    Of all the men I've ever dallied with, there were only two I could see myself happily married to. Snickers, with whom I had almost nothing in common but a love deep ...

    The Switcheroo
  • January 19, 2011

    So yesterday my blogging boy Lincoln Anthony Blades put up a post about what he calls The Worst Lie Too Many Men Believe. The post basically attempted to dispel the ...

    Playing Your Position

    Whenever I write about unconventional relationships like unboyfriends, open relationships, or casual hookups, the discussion always leads to someone protesting that ...

    The Bookmarking Man
  • January 10, 2011

    In the battle of the sexes, men and women often throw boomerangs at each other. By this I mean that we each bemoan the other’s propensity to do effed up things ...

    The Myth of the Different Man
  • January 5, 2011

    Here are two fundamental truths about my relationship history: 1. The thing I’ve liked best about every man I’ve fallen for is how different he is from ...

    A Great First Date
  • December 20, 2010

    I don’t date a lot, but I do have some pretty firm ideas of what a good first date should look like – who should pay the man, how long one should wait if ...

    Your 101 Guide to Dating a Hot Boy
  • November 23, 2010

    Let me tell you a story. One morning not long before my ex and I called it quits we were outside taking out the garbage. We were late as usual so by the time we got ...

    Baby What’s Your Sign (A Throwback Post)
  • November 16, 2010

    I’m throwing back this post a) because I’m lazy and b ) because I like the topic and a lot of you weren’t around when I originally posted it. ...

    Am I Crazy?
  • November 15, 2010

    If, like me, you are a frequent consumer of dating and relationship blogs, you've probably come across many a discussion about crazy women. It seems that men these ...

    Don’t You Like Me Anymore?
  • November 11, 2010

    As a perpetually single gal I’ve had a fair amount of dalliances with men. Some longer than others, some more hurtful than others, some more memorable than ...

    Several Shades of Asshole
  • November 8, 2010

    It is a truism of the life of any single woman that you are going to encounter a few assholes on your journey to wifehood. And if you're anything like me, assholes ...

    The Great First Kiss
  • November 1, 2010

    The best first kiss I ever had was at the dinner table. I was on a first date with a dude that gave me major butterflies and, as we engaged in the kind of ...

    Next Lifetime (A Guest Post by @LaBakir)
  • October 21, 2010

    Today we have a guest appearance from the lovely and talented LaBakir. Make sure you show her some love in the comments. “Now what am I supposed to do when I ...

    Wanted: Unboyfriend
  • October 14, 2010

    It's getting chilly and the internets are abuzz with tweets and blog posts about people looking to couple up for the winter. And while I hate cold weather as much ...

    Essential Dating Truths
  • October 12, 2010

    I’m making a guest appearance over at Three Ways To Take It today but my lovely and talented friend MsEsquire is back with a follow up guest post. Show her ...

    Much as I Loved It, Hate it Now
  • September 15, 2010

    Let me tell you about the kind of men that I love – smart (at least as smart as I am), insightful, articulate, well-hung, highly sought-after, in love with ...

    5 Signs He’s Not Worth It
  • September 14, 2010

    Part of dating someone new is putting them through the paces to decipher whether they’re worth your time. What exactly those paces entail is different ...

    You Disappeared…Then What?
  • September 7, 2010

    About ten years ago I met a man named Stephen at a birthday party for a mutual friend. We chatted, hit it off, and exchanged numbers at the end of the night. I was ...

    5 Things I Want in a Man That I Don’t Have Myself
  • September 1, 2010

    Another post inspired by Until I Get Married – I swear that guy has the best ideas! I’m sure I’ve blogged about this at some point in time, but I ...

    I’m Gonna Make You Love Me
  • August 17, 2010

    The other day while pretending to work toiling away at my incredibly demanding job my ipod delivered a one-two punch of songs that sent my little brain spinning ...

    5 Things I’m Not Doing if I’m Not Wifey
  • August 10, 2010

    Don’t forget to vote for me and your other favourite blogs for the Black Weblog Awards. All the details are right here So yesterday I was over on Until I Get ...

    The Art of the Chase (Throwback Tuesdays)

    In the old days, when I had my eye on a dude, I had one strategy: shameless and reckless pursuit. And although this method made for some great stories, it never ...

    Dudes, Dads, and Dating
  • July 7, 2010

    If you know me in real life you know that I grew up in a pretty homogenized community. Everyone I knew lived on a street like mine in a house like mine with some ...

    What I Won’t Do for a Date
  • June 23, 2010

    Have you nominated me and my blogging buddies for the Black Weblog Awards yet? You can get all the details and sh*t over here. When I called my daddy to wish him a ...

    Throwback Tuesday – Dealbreakers

    Have you nominated me and my blogging buddies for the Black Weblog Awards yet? You can get all the details and sh*t over here. Anybody who knows me knows that I am ...

    Guest Post – Getting In The Path of Destruction

    It's that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you do) by ...

    The Substitute Dude
  • June 9, 2010

    It’s that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you ...

    Throwback Tuesday – 10 Dumb Things Women Do

    Welcome to Throwback Tuesday. Since Google Analytics tells me that most of you are new visitors, I thought I’d re-post all the good ish you missed before you ...

    The Complexities of Dealing with a Busy Dude
  • June 7, 2010

    It’s that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you ...

    7 Dudes I Might Not Date
  • June 4, 2010

    It’s that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you ...

    The Ladylike Chronicles – Week IV

    It’s that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you ...

    First Time Fail
  • June 2, 2010

    It’s that time of year again. Nominations for the Black Weblog Awards have started and I would really like one. So show how much you love me (and I know you ...

    Throwback Monday – My Version of the Ladder Theory

    Sorry folks – it was quite a weekend and I did not have time to post. We we’l do throwback today and I’ll give you something good ...

    The Ladylike Chronicles – Week III

    It’s time for an update on The Ladylike Chronicles. First off, I have to apologize for not giving you one til now. Fire (our target) was missing in action and ...

    Not my ex
  • May 19, 2010

    If you follow me on twitter, you may have caught a few of my outraged tweets after Private Practice ended on Thursday night. Not to go into too much detail for those ...

    Fall for Your Type
  • May 17, 2010

    If you asked me to articulate what my type is, I probably wouldn’t be able to do it.  At one time I would have said that tall men are my type, but after 3 ...

    Throwback Tuesday – The Art of the Game

    Welcome to Throwback Tuesday. Since Google Analytics tells me that most of you are new visitors, I thought I’d repost all the good ish you missed before you ...