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Disclaimer: I'm a good girl who doesn't talk about her sex life (anymore) . Because it's private. So let's just assume for the sake of argument that none of what I'm about to say is based on my own experiences. It's just what I've heard.

Word on the street is that BDSM is where it’s at. We all know who is to blame for it, but that’s neither here nor there. If the addition of some kinky techniques is resulting in women everywhere getting their brains fucked out, does anyone really care that it’s the result of a somewhat cheesy (but fucking hawt) ebook?

Nope we don’t.

We’ve already talked about the singular joy of bondage in the bedroom. Most women – whether they admit it or not – love to have a man pin her arms over her head and bang the shit out of her. But what I had heard is that getting fucked while you’re tied up is even better if you’re blindfolded. Picture it – you’re tied up, unable to get away; frantically searching your man’s eyes for a clue as to what he’s about to do to you. But then he covers your eyes and you’re literally and figuratively in the dark as to what is about to happen to you.

And then suddenly you feel the shock of cold wetness as he trails an ice cube along your body. The rivulets of cold water that run down your sides; sending shock waves directly to your pussy. The gentle strokes that suddenly change into scratches. And there you are; dying to be fucked. Opening your legs as wide as you can and thrusting your pussy up at him as you beg him to stop, beg him for more, beg him to fuck you.

Yeah. I’ve heard that is pretty enjoyable.

And we all know that being spanked during sex is a good look. But I’ve also been told that spanking is a pretty hot sexual act all on its own. Real spanking that is. Not the light taps on your ass as you ride him that sting lightly for just a second. But being taken over your man’s knee and being punished for real or imagined transgressions. When he pins you on top of him and makes you part your legs and beats you. When you cry out each time his hand makes contact with your bare ass; not knowing yourself whether your cries are of pain or of pleasure. When you squirm to get away from the next lash, even as you open your legs wider in the hopes that the next slap will land a little closer to your pussy. And when – while still punishing you – he slips one finger into you; exploring your wetness and bringing you to the brink of the orgasm that the next slap will provide.

I’ve heard that’s pretty hot too.

But you know what’s even better than that? Being brought to the brink of orgasm but not being able to cross. When your man touches you in just the right way, when he tells you the pussy belongs to him and says all the nasty things you want to hear, when his strokes get deeper and he hits that spot over and over until you know you’re about to cum your brains out and then he just…stops. He stops and you’re left panting and breathing hard, begging him to keep fucking you, to stroke your pussy, to squeeze your titties but he won’t. And all he does instead is touch you just enough to keep your pussy wet but he refuses to do any of the things he knows you need him to do to push you over the edge. And this goes on and on and on until you’re soaking wet and your entire body is a sopping pile of wetness…

Some people say that when he finally lets you cum, you have the greatest orgasm in the history of fucking.

And some women say that it’s really hot to be hurt. Not emotionally hurt, because there’s nothing sexy about a man hurting your feelings when he’s fucking you. But a healthy dose of physical pain in the midst of pleasure is a joy forever. Have you ever had a man light a candle and drip the hot wax on you? I The women I’ve been talking to have. And what they tell me is that that feeling – the shock of the hot wax splashing onto your delicate skin, the flash of stinging burn that quickly cools to a warmth that spreads over your body, the look in your man’s eyes as he watches you cry out and squirm to get away, the anticipation of the next drop – that feeling will have you dripping wet and begging to be fucked. Hard.

I’ve heard the same thing about nipple clamps too, but you know I’m a good girl so I can’t say I’ve ever experienced it. But some women say that after a man has sucked and licked your nipples, after he has pinched them and bitten them and slapped them and they’re stiff and hard and begging for more, some women say that if after that he takes out a pair of nipple clamps you’ve won the fucking lottery.

These women claim that if, after he puts the clamps on you, he begins to tease  your body with his tongue, with his, lips, with his hands, if he slowly increases the pleasure of the clamps as he gets you more and more excited, that you will be begging him for more.  And if those nipple clamps are attached with a chain, and if he pulls the chain up toward your face, then down towards your pussy, if he pulls it straight out from your body. If he puts the chain in your mouth and makes you tilt your head back until you feel the pull in your nipples…well those women say that you will cum your fucking brains out.

But of course, all of this is what I’ve heard.  I’m a good girl in a relationship so I don’t fuck and tell. But what say you guys? Are you having adventures in BDSM? I know at least one of you out there is. Nasty Friday is back – overshare with me in the comments!