Just picture it. You're doing your thing at work; sitting through meeting after meeting all day. And you're into it - you're talking, you're listening, you're engaged. But there's one little secret corner of your brain that is somewhere else all the while. Most of your mind is focused on the issue at hand, but one small part of it is focused on that anticipatory thrill that is pulsing in your pussy.
We’ve talked about anticipation before. The breathlessness, chest-heaving, heart palpitations that you feel when you know it’s about to go down. That pulse deep inside of you when your love starts to come down just from the sheer knowledge that soon you’re going to fuck the person you most want to fuck.
When your anticipation reaches frenzy levels and you’re finally alone in a room with the object of your desire and there’s nothing left to do but what the fuck you went there to do, your immediate inclination is to get to it. To skip the pleasantries, miss the bullshit, and get to it.
But there is no greater gratification than delayed gratification. We all know this. And there is no better way to fill that time than by touching yourself.
Ladies if you are not letting your man watch you play with your pussy you are failing at life.
Men are visual. They’re voyeurs. They like to watch. And there is no better show than watching a woman rub her hands lightly over her breasts, just barely grazing her nipples. He wants to watch them get hard. Then watching as she squeezes them and low moans start to escape her throat. Trust me when I tell you he wants to see you play with your nipples, squeeze them. He wants to see you squirm as your pussy starts to throb.
Then he wants to watch you slide one hand down your body. Let him see your fingers trail down your stomach. He wants to see you stroke your pussy slowly and gently through your panties. It’s sexy for a man to see your pussy start to get wetter and wetter as you stroke. For him to watch you slide them down your legs and open wide.
So yes, ladies. Let him watch you play with your pussy. Listen to his instructions when he tells you to slide your fingers inside. Do as he says as he tells you to go faster, thrust harder. Let him hear how wet you are.
Let your man watch you cum. Let him see you bite your lip to stop the loud moaning that’s building within you. And then let him hear you as the pleasure gets the better of you and you start to call his name. Let him watch your face contort as the orgasm washes over you, watch how you buck and undulate as you ride the wave.
Yes ladies, let your man watch you touch yourself. Then if you’re gangster, let him watch you taste your fingers.
And men you’re not off the hook here. Quiet as it’s kept, we ladies like to watch you touch yourselves too. It’s fucking sexy as hell to watch you stroke your dick. Go slow. Let us watch you as you rhythmically jerk your dick and we imagine you stretching out our walls. Let us see the nut build up in you. We want to see you so into what you’re doing that you almost forget we’re in the room. From a distance, we can see what you’re feeling in a way we can’t when you’re fucking us, so let us watch you.
Men, let your girl watch your dick get harder as your stroke gets faster. Let us hear your breath get faster, hear those little grunts you make when you know you’re about to bust. And then let us see it. Show us what we inspired you to do.
Men, let your girls watch you stroke your dick .
So tell me dear readers – are you letting your partners watch you touch yourself? Anyone out there not want to see or not willing to be seen? It’s Friday and you know what we do on Fridays – overshare in the comments.