Oral Fixation (A Nasty Friday Guest Post)
Nasty Fridays returns in a big way with a guest post from my former FXP nemesis and friend The Analyst . If you don't know about him, he is the author of the amazing When Keeping it Real Goes Right. Read him, love him, follow him @Smooth_Orator or his blog: @RealGoesRight
Hello, my name is The Analyst and I love getting and giving head. In actuality, I love giving it more than I love getting it.
Let me explain.
I know you’re accustomed to hearing men profess their love for getting head. It’s usually some contrite explanation having to do with having a power trip and control over a woman.
I ain’t into that shit.
I’m a visual person, so to see a woman wrap both hands around my manhood and insert me into her mouth…Some men claim they like getting head and relegate it to just being sucked off because it feels good.
I love EVERY aspect of getting head.
I love the way a woman looks at my dick with curiosity and eagerness. I love the way a woman settles on her knees looking my dick directly in the eye. I love the way she licks her lips in anticipation to put me in her mouth. I love the way she starts from the base of my dick with her tongue, traces it all the way to the top of the head, and subsequently swallows half of it in one fell swoop.
The nastier, the better. I don’t like dry spots on it, and I especially love a woman who is cognizant of that and acts accordingly. The sloppier, the better. I love it when women use their hands and mouth in tandem to make my dick feel like the entire thing is being sucked while using saliva to make the entire thing one smooth experience.
Kobe and Shaq don’t have shit on a woman with a good hand/spit/mouth tandem.
I also love it when a woman sucks me when she’s on her knees because it gives me the ability to fuck her in the mouth. I love to hear the sounds of me moving in and out of her mouth. I love the moans she makes as I have free reign to treat her mouth however I please.
And finally, when all those motions and sounds, and visuals combine to bring me to my peak, I love a woman who sucks faster, harder, and more aggressive as I fill her mouth and throat with my cum.
Fuck…I need a minute…*wipes sweat*
Now…as much as I love getting it…I love giving it even more.
See, for the most part, I treat sex like this: it isn’t about me. I’m going to get mine regardless, so I like to focus on my partner. Getting your brains fucked out is already a given with me, so I like to spend extra time making sure I’ve got my woman properly prepped.
I don’t just go down and start eating all extra fast so I can get up and start fucking.
No. I take my time. I kiss on her neck. Explore her body with my hands. Suck and bite the nipples. Massage the breasts. I touch every erogenous zone on a woman’s body before I finally decide it’s time for dessert.
Everything about eating pussy is awesome to me. Kissing on her inner thighs. Licking them slowly. Feeling her legs quiver in anticipation. Taking in her smell. Rubbing her pussy with my fingers so I can feel the wetness on my hand and insert my fingers into my mouth afterward.
I savor the taste.
Once I’m ready, I prefer to either lay a woman on an elevated surface, i.e. the computer desk in my apartment, or have her sit squarely on my face so she can ride it until her heart’s content.
If I lay her on the desk, I take my time and let the soft moans that escapes her dictate my speed. I like the clit. Suck it softly. Write my name on it with my tongue. During this. I like to stick a finger inside so I can feel the contractions of her on my finger.
I also like to play with the g spot while simultaneously eating her out. Hearing a woman talk to me breathlessly, moan loudly, and confusingly beg for me to stop while she pushes my face deeper into her is a pleasure I cannot readily describe.
When her legs begin to quiver and she’s ready to climax, I love taking everything into overdrive so that all of her juices flow directly into my mouth. After her body goes limp, I love to celebrate the moment by passionately kissing her in the mouth.
After all…it’s only right….
Whew lord. He might make me a believer in cunnilingus! But what about you dear readers – do you have an oral fixation? Overshare with us in the comments.