So I’m back with another great advice question. This one comes from Kookie and it’s really interesting.
“[Back in 2009 I met a woman online with whom I had similar interests]. I got along with her and we clicked. We formed a fast friendship. Two years later we have met, formed a successful business relationship and generally just think the world of each other.
Here’s the problem. I recently found out the ex she repeatedly speaks about is the same ex who took my virginity and whom I’ve maintained contact with. I plan to travel to my hometown later this year and I will be staying with her while I’m there. Before I found out this information, I had made plans to link up with our shared dickmatiser as he also lives there.
I really don’t know what I should do. I have a successful business and a very tight relationship with this woman, but at the same time I was very sure (and he has been very insistent on) that I wanted this man to lay down some serious pipe when I arrive. I’m not sure its worth the risk to spill my guts to her. My dilemma is, should I tell her? He’s the one that took my virginity and for her he’s the ex that she’ll always feel something for. What do I do?”
Good question eh?
When I first read this, I literally screwed up my face in confusion. I was at a loss as to what to tell this woman and I knew right away I’d have to take it to the readers. I’m of two minds about the whole thing:
On the one hand I think she should keep her mouth shut and go ahead and thronx her ex if it’s what she wants to do and it’s a healthy thing to do. If we have to endure breakups in life, at the very least they should afford us the right to deal with our exes however we want to. And the fact that he coincidentally happens to also be her friend’s ex is immaterial. Telling her friend is only going to create chaos and drama that will likely get in the way of all the fucking, so she should keep her mouth shut and do what it do. It would be different if she was trying to wife him down; but if it’s just a slam? Take the beats and keep it moving in silence like a bad boy.
But on the other hand, I keep picturing the friend’s face if she were to find out somehow that Kookie slammed her “one that got away” while staying up in her house. That is some grimy shit, isn’t it? If that’s her homegirl, she really shouldn’t be hiding things from her – especially if she’s not doing anything wrong. Which I don’t think she is. The thing about being grown and doing shit like this is that we should have the balls to tell the truth about it when we do. At the very least, she should fuck ole boy and then tell her friend after ( to ensure nothing gets in the way of her and the dick), but the grown up and respectful thing would be to just be upfront and honest and hope that she can deal with whatever fallout comes from that.
Since she didn’t ask whether she should fuck the guy, I’m assuming that not fucking is not an option. This is my kind of woman!
But what do you guys think? Should she tell her friend that she’s about to smash her ex? Should she just not smash the ex at all? Weigh in in the comments.