The Hottest Thing a Man Can Say

27
May
2011
lil-kim-hardcore

As a reader, a writer, and a talker, words are a big deal to me. I take them seriously, choose them carefully, and value them above feelings and actions. Nothing inspires me, motivates me, or moves me like words.


I’m also a perv, a freak, and a borderline nympho. Not to be extreme but, sex is….well it’s everything to me.

Of course it stands to reason then that dirty talk is the greatest thing in my life. If you’ve ever fucked me, or had a conversation with me about fucking me, you know that nothing makes my panties drop faster or more eagerly than hot talks.

The possiblities of what you might say to me to get my pussy throbbing are endless, but if there is one thing that will make me jump a man’s bones instantly, it’s those three little words:

It’s my pussy.

There is nothing hotter in life than a man declaring his ownership of my pussy especially if it’s true. I don’t know what it is about that phrase or what it says about me that I love it so much (nor do I particularly care) but you can get just about anything you want if you drop this on me. Because even though I shun monogamy, I do love giving a man exclusive access to my pussy. And if you’re the only one flogging my pussy you are welcome and encouraged to claim it as your own.

So go ahead, tell me the pussy belongs to you. Tell me that it always will. The sweetest thing I’ve ever known in my life was not a damn kiss on a collar bone, it was the man who said to me ” This pussy is mine, that’s why I fuck it like I do. I can fuck it however I want to, whenever I want to and you will fucking enjoy it.”

That shit was better than a marriage proposal.

And then of course the holy grail of this sentiment is when you make me tell you that the pussy is yours. Oh man. Excuse me for a moment…

Anyway. I know there are some women out there who don’t like it when a man claims their pussy and I have to tell you that I just do not understand you.  And to be honest, I kind of pity you because there is no greater orgasm than an orgasm achieved because a man claimed your pussy at just the right moment. Please relinquish your feminism, autonomy, misguided perception of respect, or whatever it is that is stopping you from experiencing the epic joy of this. Because you really are missing out. You don’t know it, but you are. And men, if you are beating up a pussy on a regular and you have never declared it yours, please get your life in order because something has gone wrong.

As for the rest of you, I know you know what I’m saying. What is the hottest thing a man can ever say to a woman? You know what it is.

It’s my pussy.

But what do you guys think? Ladies are you with me on this or are you failing at life one of those women who are turned off by this? Is “it’s my pussy” hot no matter who is saying it or does a deeper connection have to exist for this to be valid? Men – is the inverse true? Is the hottest thing I can say to you that your dick belongs to me? What other nasty little utterances do you like to hear when it’s going down? Overshare with me in the comments.

 



25 Comments

  • AMEN. No one could say it better. It’s getting a little warm in here…
    Carry on.

  • Malik says:

    I’m pretty much a full on in my support and advocation for womanism in my day to day happenings. I’ll be DAMNED however if a gal tells me ‘this is my dick’. Yeah, I’m sorry I’m not into being dominated during sex. During any sexual activity, I’m doing at least 50% of the work. I like my sex like I like my hip-hop instrumental albums, good beats and rhythms accented by voices every so often.

    I’m a pretty quiet guy during sex, so all I really need is some (A LOT) of heavy moaning while your hand is caressing my face, assuming we’re in a position where that is possible. Or maybe I’ll just pull a Colin Farrell and spend the entire time telling you you’re fucking beautiful. Just give me a smile and a thank you back and I’m golden. I love Colin Farrell, great actor and his ‘richard’ looks just like mine so that makes me feel better. TMI and all that jazz, but it’s Nasty Friday so eh.

    • HLBB says:

      *googles “Colin Farrel’s penis*

      erm.

      Yeah. I will claim it and he better like it…
      heh.

    • O_D says:

      “I like my sex like I like my hip-hop instrumental albums, good beats and rhythms accented by voices every so often.”

      Lol good metaphor man, some damu the fudgemunk any day of the week.

  • Capricorn says:

    The muh fuggin’ TROOF.

  • Ray. says:

    I like to claim pussy, esp. when I kno I’m the only only allowed in that pussy. But I’ve been going back and forth with that statement in my head, bc I took my girls V and even tho she likes dirty talk I still doesn’t feel right to say “this my pussy” bc whoelse pussy would it be?? I feel limited talking dirty to her bc its so much she hasn’t experienced and even tho I’m happy she was a virgin, its impossible to ask her “who’s the best” and sh*t like that bc she has no one to compare me to..

  • Kema says:

    “There is nothing hotter in life than a man declaring his ownership of my pussy”
    YES!!!

    “And then of course the holy grail of this sentiment is when you make me tell you that the pussy is yours. Oh man. Excuse me for a moment…”
    YES!!!

    Funny thing… This seems to go with one of my least favorites… when a man ask “whose is it?” or some variation. I hate questions during!!

    • sknnie_mnnie says:

      “Funny thing… This seems to go with one of my least favorites… when a man ask “whose is it?” or some variation. I hate questions during!!”

      –yes. when that happens, i’m thinking to myself “really? you have to ask?!” smh.
      man, you should just KNOW who it belongs to. if you’re asking, obviously it’s not yours. lol

  • Elle says:

    Absolute truth!

  • Flyy says:

    Maxie, Maxie, Maxie…

    - I perish –

    the end.

  • SmartFoxGirl says:

    I don’t like too much sh*t talking because then I won’t believe him but I like it when a man breathes hard and says “d@mn” a few times or “sh*t” and then randomly whispers how good I feel in my ear. That makes me effin crazy. Another thing that turns me into Niagra Falls is when a man dominates me in the bedroom. Nothing turns me on more than a man who can/will check me. Grab my arm, push me back and tell me it’s yours, tell me to shut up, tell me to open up, force my legs back, grab a fist full of my hair and booty….excuse me. I got things to do today.

    The best prelude words to s.ex is “Come here”. I dunno what it is but when he would say that, I knew it was on.

  • GirlSixx is ChloeRayne516 says:

    *BitingLip*

    You are spot on!!!!!

    I love mind fcuking during the act, it makes the s.ex more intense

    *WhyamIBlushingRightNow*

    Okay I’m done.

  • sknnie_mnnie says:

    i came out of lurkdom to tell you

    1) i love this blog!

    and

    2) i 100000% cosign! there is nothing hotter. nothing.

    okay bye
    :) *creeps back into lurking*

  • HLBB says:

    This right here is why I’m so happy you’re going to be a judge in a few weeks!!!

    You totally get it.

    Now I know you’re going to think I need a good hush mama, but I must admit that I’m not a big fan of the “mine” comments. I’m always a bit thrown. Yes, it’s the feminist conditioning, but it’s also the alpha female in me because I have no problem saying “this is my dick”. heh

    But mind fucking on a whole. Yes. Please. More. You know how I love my words…and if spoken in the right way?

    My favourite sext message ever was from a sender who was very much an alpha but had a jokey playful side especially since we were always trying to one up each other on the sarcastic front. The message was

    “Now (please?)”.

    I was at his door faster than a pizza delivery.

  • Cafe says:

    Mm Mm Mm. Yes, I do love the right words at the right time. TELL me it’s yours (when it is)…tell me to move a certain way and when I hesitate a gruff “what did I say” brings a smile to my face.

    BUT…when a man that is not hittin it right and has not yet been given the exclusive-access-pass claims it is his…well, I get downright irritated. Just because you are here does not mean you will necessarily be here again if you do not know what you are doing. Strong words + weak pipe = access denied.

  • Juiicy says:

    For real tho’?! If this blog was posted 5months ago, I would have say you are crazy … But damn damn damn … Dis guy overpowered me in the bedroom and took my by surprise when he demanded that he was in control by whispering, saying things like “let me do the work” “let me show you what good dick is” .. I was speechless (okey not really *insert moan)

    I am that alpha female that doesn’t do saying that he is the best. But I had to say it to him that his dick was thee best! By the way .. I hate it when a guy claims my pussy as his own, especially when he sux!!! I don’t claim a guys dick, if its good … Go and share ur gift wid the world! (joke!)

  • hdotoskie says:

    yeah guys should spartan up lol and say this more often

  • tute says:

    I like my pussy eaten and for somebody who lick that body Vanessa use their tongue also play wit click while u fuck me

  • Ginahassim says:

    I love it with the guy I’m with now. And he loves when I respond to him that it’s his. We just started talking dirty to each other recently. Last Friday. My muscles still hurt…omg
    He’s sooo hot!!! Omg….I’m so infatuated with him. I told him it was his since the first time we got together…that got him more excited….and he’s pretty much excited anyway without much push. The funniest thing is that I’ve always said I hate thugs…except Italians…and that’s what he is (he talks like Pauly from the Jersey shore…it’s so cute) .I met him after I openly admitted it a few times. And he’s the best I’ve ever had in my life!!!!!! It’s his all day….
    Ima f around and have some swirl mocha babies with him ;)
    Let me stop lmaaaao
    I’m so sprung

  • Lu says:

    Have a listen to “Pussy Is Mine” by Miguel if you haven’t already. You’re welcome.


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