So I’m back with another reader advice question. This one was a good one in that I was a little stumped. For those of you who can’t see the video or can’t be bothered to watch it, here’s the question:
Ok…So I have a bf…we’ve been together for almost 5 months now. He doesn’t trust me though. Now I understand someone’s complete trust will not grow in 5 months…but he doesn’t really just trust me like at all. For example, whenever I’m not with him he thinks I’m with someone else. -__-
Now if I’m not with him I’m either at home taking care of my family, at work, or at school. It’s like he’s so used to messing with these “hoes” who don’t have anything going for themselves so when it comes to me he’s skeptical because I’m with him. Maybe its self-esteem or something that he has to deal with him within himself or maybe it’s intimidation. When it comes to my Facebook and my phone I’m very open because i honestly don’t have anything to hide. I’ve been through a lot as a child, teen, even up to now. I have my whole future planned out and it seems like he thinks that he’s not worthy enough for me or something. I honestly wouldn’t waste my time on someone who wasn’t worth my time…things are getting rockier and rockier between us. And i honestly don’t know what to do. Help me please.
I took a stab at it in the video but I’m not sure how helpful my advice was. Weigh in with your own in the comments…especially those of you who are in successful trusting relationships.