So I’m back with another reader question. Read the question below and then watch the video to see my answer.
I have “seeing” a guy for about 3 months now. He is the first and last thug I will ever date. We met at hood club in Brooklyn, NY. We didn’t become sexual until a month into it. He usually comes by once a week to hang out and most of the time have sex. I don’t mind it because I have a strong sex drive and like doing it albeit it isn’t often enough for me. At around the 2nd month he started saying that I’m his girl. I don’t claim him as my man because we don’t go anywhere. I make suggestions to go out and it’s always some excuse why we can’t. On the few occasions he asked me to go with him to a club we ended up not going because he claimed he didn’t have enough money.
He says he isn’t into Valentine’s day but gave me diamond earrings. I haven’t worn them because he is a thug and I don’t know whether they are stolen or what.
What do you guys think? Can she call him her man if they’ve never gone anywhere together? Is this guy a dud or worth sticking it out with? Weigh in in the comments.
Also – check me out this Sunday March 6 on Everyone’s Stupid But Me – a live one-hour debate show with my homegirl Shannon of ThoseGirlsAreWild.com. We’re talking about whether Friends with Benefits is a viable relationship or are the people involved in them just desperate folks in denial. You guys know how passionate I am about
meaningless emotion-less sex, so it should be a good discussion. Check out the preview here: