Sex Manners (You be the judge)

07
Feb
2011
manners

I heard an interesting story the other day about this girl I used to be friends with. Apparently she was long-distance dating a dude who lived in Ohio and after the requisite amount of getting to know you time, she invited him to come to Toronto. The deal was that he would fly himself up [...]


I heard an interesting story the other day about this girl I used to be friends with. Apparently she was long-distance dating a dude who lived in Ohio and after the requisite amount of getting to know you time, she invited him to come to Toronto. The deal was that he would fly himself up here and she would put him up at her place to save him the cost of the hotel. Sounds fair enough right?

Problem was, the first night he was in town they were at her place hanging out when he suggested they retire to the bedroom. They did, but it quickly became clear that each of them had a vastly different idea of what should be going on once they got there. To put it baldly (since that’s how we do it around here), he wanted to fuck and she didn’t.

After the requisite yes-no-yes-no power struggle, she got fed up and went into the other room. Ohio man, alone in her bed with an unresolved hard-on, decided to take matters into his own hands. So he jerked himself off in her bed and blew an epic load all over her $500 comforter.

Whatever else you want to say about this story, I think – I hope – we all can agree that shooting your seeds all over someone’s comforter is pretty bad sex manners.

But when it comes to good sex manners, the lines can get murky pretty quickly. Our individual standards of what constitutes bad manners vary wildly and depend on a million things.  And since my goal in life is for all of us to have frequent, bullshit-free sex, I thought it would be fun if we worked together to create an international standard of good sex manners.

I’m going to throw out a few situations and you guys tell me in the comments what you think the mannerly thing to do is.

1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets?

2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave?

3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex?

4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage?

5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic?

6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners?

7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night?

8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare?

9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude?

10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole?

For once in my life, I’m going to hold my tongue and not tell you guys what I think of these situations. You guys tell me – what is the polite thing to do in these situations?



53 Comments

  • Melissa says:

    Did you get all your numbers right????
    I’ll answer the rest in the morning.

  • Yoles says:

    1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets?

    I think this depends on how the sex begins… if you know that its just about the activities leave the full face make-up at home ladies… but definitely is she is spending the night wash your face ladies!!!!

    2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave?

    Make up the bed, its just the nice thing to do. If you are that comfortable with each other you can even change the sheets…

    3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex?
    I’ve never said “Thank you” per se, hmmmm maybe your partner should know how much you appreciated it DURING the act

    4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage?

    YES, come on people has all manners left the building? Just like you would offer a regular guest a beverage offer the person that made your body purr something to ease the thirst.

    5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic?

    I think it’s a little rude, give some after glow time. Honestly do you really feel you’re that dirty?!?!?

    6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners?

    Sometimes you’re just beat (pun intended) hopefully you can have some paper towel at the side of the bed for the quick wipe up.

    7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night?

    No, I feel like the only time that you are not spending the night is when that is pre-arranged. If not stated before hand that you gots to get up out of there after you should spend the night!

    8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare?

    If he offers the sleepover and she refuses she pays for the cab. I do think it’s polite for a man to offer car fare though, its late and she is tired (hopefully).

    9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude?

    YES, your guest is leaving, they have to travel to where ever they are going so you walking them to the door is no where near what they have to go through. Stop being lazy and give your guest a nice sweet send off.

    10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole?

    Absolutely, unless he met her on craigslist casual encounter or some other kind of we are never speaking again arrangement he should contact her the next day even if its just to say hello.

  • Just Saying says:

    1. No, if your boning, changing the sheets afterwards is a must anyway.
    2. Yes, at least attempt to do it, it doesn’t have to be hotel perfect.
    3. Yes, maybe not thank you exactly but a gesture that shows me you enjoyed it.
    4. No, especially if it sucked.
    5. Rude, why the rush, reminds of Sex and the City when the guy Miranda dated practically ran to the shower post-coital.
    6. Yes, especially if it got dirty, we can do each other.
    7. Yes, cuddling would be the first clue, if there is none, thank you n get home safe.
    8. If she doesn’t drive and neither does she, then yes. At least offer and make sure she gets home safe. This is why it is best to get involved with someone who has their own transportation.
    9. Yes no thinking neceessary.
    10. Maybe not, but it should would have me wondering about my performance.

    • Merci Merc says:

      8. “This is why it is best to get involved with someone who has their own transportation.”

      That makes sense. I mean what if he goes to her pad. Does She owe him cab-fare? Good grief!!!

  • Adonis says:

    Max… It is too early in the morning to think about (sex) manners… But I am intrigued… And ready to go in (in a moment)

    • Adonis says:

      Before I weigh in on your 1-10, I believe manners in most cases protects feelings & undermines honesty, so… forgive me if I am not the most polite person in the universe… Simultaneous, I am very sensitive when it comes to women & sex, so I try to be on my best behavior when I am getting some…

      1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets?

      First of all, if women ate better, their skin would glow, and make-up wouldn’t be a problem… take off the make-up!

      2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave?

      I would make the bed up… No it is not rude…

      3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex?

      I would say thank you, but no it is not impolite

      4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage?

      No, I am not obliged to give anything except giving her legendary c*ck…

      5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic?

      Not rude, but I believe in bonding after sex, so no showering until at least 30 minute have elapsed

      6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners?

      No, but I would provide one

      7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night?

      No, But on a case by case basis, I’ll kick your a*s out, or leave as I please

      8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare?

      No, & No… especially if my sex is famtastic, good sex from males are hard to come by… & I use that as leverage… This is where EQUAL RIGHTS is a SUCCESS

      9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude?

      Nope… I beat it up, it is time to leave, nah I would walk you to the door, If I allowed you into my bed, I must feel a certain way about, so…

      10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole?

      Women have stated that they don’t want a good (clingy) man, so I go out my way not to call a woman after sex… Women like to be put through all kinds of ish when dealing with the man that they are f*cking love… So, by calling I am depriving women of the drama, intrigue & uncertainty

      Good Post!

      • RedLady821 says:

        “Women have stated that they don’t want a good (clingy) man, so I go out my way not to call a woman after sex… Women like to be put through all kinds of ish when dealing with the man that they are f*cking love… So, by calling I am depriving women of the drama, intrigue & uncertainty”

        This right here? Miss me with the bullshit. You like to play games.

        • max says:

          Girl I considered banning him for that shit.

        • Adonis says:

          I don’t know what to say to that…

          Ms. Red, I don’t like to play to games… I’m a man, I like my life simplified… But IT IS DEMANDED that I play games, cause being straightfoward doesn’t win in the dating game… now if it wins with you, Bless you

          • RedLady821 says:

            I would say that you haven’t met the right kind of woman in your travels. I am sorry that you feel that game playing is necessary in order to for your life to be SIMPLIFIED. I can assure you that I nor the majority of my friends feel that way.

            I was really ready not to like you — but you did write a BAWSE article: The Reason Inner-City Schools SUCK: Anti-Intellectualism In The Black Community Is At An ALL-TIME HIGH.

            I wish you continued success in finding the right woman for you (sans game playing). Continue educating and uplifting.

            • Adonis says:

              WHOA, WHOA… I didn’t write that, I CO-SIGNED that @LincolnBlades… wrote tha

              Givin’ credit where credit due…

              Good Points…

              • RedLady821 says:

                Wait…you didn’t write that? I will give you credit for co-signing it. Otherwise, I wish you luck in your endeavors.

                • Adonis says:

                  Good Artist BORROW, Great Artists STEAL —Picasso,

                  That article hit home for me because the school I went to (Andrew Jackson) was more like a PRISON (that you can leave at the end of the day) than an actual place of learning…

                  & Being intelligent (NOT SMART) personally has never went well with my street brothers (or street sistas)… (That is life…)

      • Merci Merc says:

        I agree with you on “This is where EQUAL RIGHTS is a SUCCESS”

        Because, anything less its gonna be is this Bum ASS Dude/Dudette situation. Either way, you don’t gotta go home but um… you gots to get up outta here lol.

        I think the rule should be if you don’t have car-fare stay your behind home!!!

        What about that???

  • derevolushun says:

    1. Bad manners.
    2. Bad manners.
    3. You don’t have to say thank you but you have to show/express appreciation.
    4. Yes.
    5. Yes. Wait 20 mins unless valid pre-established reason.
    6. Yes.
    7. Yes.
    8. No. No. (But would be nice if he did either way.)
    9. Kind of.
    10. Kind of.

  • LaLaBakir says:

    1. I don’t know. Don’t wear makeup. Not sure how messy it can get.

    2. Bad Manners

    3. Assuming both parties want to have sex….I don’t see why a thank you would be needed. It’s not like you’re doing me a favor. Just show that you had a good time.

    4. Yes

    5. Wait a little while. The shower isn’t going anywhere and it can appear rude.

    6. Bad manners

    7. Bad manners

    8. Not sure. I don’t catch cabs…not hip to cab catching etiquitte…however the hell you spell it.

    9. Bad manners…depending on how well you know the person.

    10. Kind of

  • 1. before she goes to bed she should ask to take a shower or at least get a washcloth to clean her face off with.

    2. yes its bad manners. i really don’t like coming home to an unmade bed.

    3. like literally say “thank you”? naw son. you don’t have to thank me because those words are definitely not coming out my mouth.

    4. yes. your house your responsibility to offer a cold drink and a warm washcloth.

    5. i would say thats just rude. unless you have somewhere to really be (i.e. after morning sex).

    6. yes.

    7. its rude to assume but there’s nothing wrong with asking before hand.

    8. its not necessarily rude but it would be the right thing to do.

    9. yes that is completely rude. you can’t see me to the door? after the night of bliss i just gave you? RUDE

    10. this depends on the situation and the people involved.

  • Sam Sharpe says:

    1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets?

    Say no to the fake up. To me this isn’t a problem of removal of makeup, but a problem of excessive makeup. If you’re wearing that much product you’re either not getting in my bed or I’m laying down some plastic like Dexter. Or we’re f**king at her place. Isn’t this an opportunity for MAC or some enterprising company to have sex proof makeup?

    2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave?

    Listen, When I leave, they leave. I’m never leaving a bed buddy in my apartment alone unless she’s my significant other. In that case it’s not compulsory that she make the bed, but it would be nice.

    3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex?

    Hopefully she’s speechless at the end of the session and the thank you is written all over her face/labia/my sheets.

    4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage?

    Just on GP I offer pre and post slam beverages. And sometimes in-game beverages are at hand as well. Gotta monitor those electrolytes.

    5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic?

    Both.

    6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners?

    Nah.

    7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night?

    Never assume. An invitation to fuck is an invitation to fuck. Nothing more, nothing less.

    8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare?

    In my opinion offering cab fare is done on a case to case basis and is NOT mandatory.

    9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude?

    Who doesn’t walk their guest to the door?

    10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole?

    Meh. This one gets a Kanye shrug.

    • Merci Merc says:

      This fool said ” Gotta monitor those electrolytes.”

      And its true you should walk your girl to the door. I dont think it should be etched in stone. But eight or nine times out a ten is good. Everytime is pushing it. Good responses dude.

  • William Templar says:

    A warm towel and Yardley soap is C-L-A-S-S-Y

  • funms says:

    1. Bad manners…..at least use some wipes for the makeup or wash your face

    2. I think it’s rude not too, except the sex was wack and in any case, i would have bolted out right after

    3. Hmmmm thank you for what exactly, a toe-curling orgasm? if you want to massage your partner’s ego, then say thank u

    4. I always ask if he wants water or vodka…..hehehehehe

    5. RUDE

    6. Not really rude, sometimes one can’t just be bothered, hey the bathroom is open

    7. Not every night f**k leads to a sleepover so no assumptions

    8. No opinion

    9. I rarely walk guests to the door, well maybe i’m rude..shrug

    10. yea if he doesn’t contact, he’s rude but like a friend says, if the sex was bad, then he has no right contacting….

  • RedLady821 says:

    1. I don’t think it’s bad manners to remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets, but if she is going to spend the night she should wash her face/body afterwards because makeup is just grimey after 24 hours.

    2. It depends on whether or not the bed was made before you even started. If he is a slob I’m not going to tidy up for him, but if he is neat, yes, that’s just good manners.

    3. No, it’s not impolite, you didn’t just do me a favor, we just pleased each other. I’m not some begging hag, you didn’t help me out of a bad situation. whatever to the thank you’s.

    4. Offer? No, but if I’m thirsty I will offer you a drink as I get one for myself.

    5. Ultra hygenic. There’s a lot of stuff out there these days. A lot of people also have OCD.

    6. Yes it’s bad manners not to provide a post-sex cleanup towel..

    7. Yes it’s bad manners to assume that fucking someone is an invitation to spend the night. Don’t just lay there and expect an overnight stay unless you were invited. That can get your feelings hurt. Seriously.

    8. Well hopefully she has her own car, and her own way to get home. Never been in this situation, so don’t know if it’s rude or not. If a woman opts not to spend the night and he usually gives cab fare anyway, that’s cool. Yes he should still provide it.

    9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door, hell yeah you’re rude.

    10. Yes he is a rude asshole if he doesn’t contact her the next day. Just stank.

  • Kema says:

    1. Dont really wear makeup… but I dont think its rude.

    2. Nope… Not making their bed. They should change the covers anyway.

    3. Thank you? Im not providing a service.

    4. Offer a beverage? Well did he earn one?

    5. Rude to jump up and take a shower. He has to hold me for at least 10 mins

    6. Rude! Provide a towel.

    7. If I cant spend the night they maybe we shouldnt be wrestling

    8. I drive so… but maybe it is rude. idk!

    9. If it is rude then I must be a rude mofo. I am not getting out of the bed. Especially if you need to leave at an ungodly hour. Lets say our good byes bedside.

    10. Of course this is rude!!!

  • Menelaus says:

    1. You can keep your makeup on. I don’t like surprises.
    2. You don’t have to make my bed, but I notice when you do.
    3. Praise the Lord when we’re done having sex, at least, shed a tear, but don’t thank me.
    4. No.
    5. Some women like for you to stay inside of them after you finish. Some women get mad at the 5-minute shower, but run away from my speeding bullet like it’s a cell phone bill. I can’t call it.
    6. In a way, yes. But it can also be seen as rude.
    7. Hell yes.
    8. Cab fare is for hoes. If she’s not a hoe, she should be able to find her way home or get a ride.
    9. Yes.
    10. Nope, he doesn’t have to call. The second she notices that he hasn’t call, it shoudl dawn on her, that she hasn’t called.

    • RedLady821 says:

      Cab fare is for ho’s? OMG….you just slayed me with that one. I see you Dr. J.
      I accept your response to #10 as logical.

      • Menelaus says:

        I mean, it’s true though. Think about the concept of cab fare. Typically it’s because you went out of your way to come to my place. You were planning on going one place and ended up coming to my place. That’s probably because I picked you up that night, or asked you to stop through after you left wherever you were. That means “hoe.”

        Let’s say I went out on a date with a girl and I picked her up. I’m going to take her home after the deed is done. Or let’s say that’s my steady, then she’s probably driving over my place, or if she cabs it, she’s making that decision knowing that she’s staying or if she leaves, she needed to make moves because of an early committment. Cab fare is for hoes.

  • Merci Merc says:

    Mm Mm Mmm… Maxie, Shole know how to ask those questions to make people get real ethnic. I scoff as I preference should I be politically correct or just be Ronnie Realz. I decided to be truthful because the truth will make you free. Let’s go…

    1) Make up off- What are you hiding behind that face of yours? After picking her up from a club or something, I start giving her the side eye like she’s a drag queen, “Thinking to myself… What are you? Who “is” you? Take that gunk off ladies.

    2) Simply leace it like you found it. If it was crisp and clean-make it up. It would be nice if you changed the sheets (if time permits) But, it certainly doesn’t hurt you to take 5 minutes to make up the bed, lazy.

    3) Not impolite. But, I do say thank you. It’s an appreciation. Help me, help you.

    4) I’m not obliged but its a decent human thing to do.

    5) Yes and No. Yes, because coochie juice is like a repellent. But NO!!! to the five minutes. I’m like five minutes?? I’m still in my natural cool down period, reveling on the nice work out. Might be thinking about round 2,3,4,and 5.

    6) If you’re good I will even wipe the coochie for you. Hows that for service?

    7) Not rude. Just over zealous. But, I can respect it though, it has its place.

    8) A. Depends on how she got there. B. Are we underage? I don’t OWE you cab fare.

    9) It depends on if I’m sleepy or not. If you come give me a freaky-deaky drive by, Leave the $200 on the nightstand (like the movie Boomerang) and let yourself out. Where do people get all these rules and entitlements from? Where they do all that at?

    10) Sex is for bonding purposes. If I didn’t BOND with you, I don’t owe you a call-That’s that!!!

  • melissa says:

    1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets?

    i don’t wear that much makeup where this would really be a problem, but i don’t think it’s rude. it’s more a matter of circumstance. if i have the foresight then i would obviously remove my makeup, just because it’s best for me anyway. but if we’re in from a night out and things just happen, i’m not gonna be concerned with removing my makeup and neither should he.

    2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave?

    kinda bad manners, just because, aren’t you supposed to make a bed when you leave it? even at a hotel, i’ll at least pull the comforter over. i’m not saying i would expect hotel-style bedmaking, but at least pull the cover over and we’re good.

    3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex?

    i don’t think so. i think the finish is thank you enough.

    4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage?

    i’m not obliged to offer anything. i will if i feel like it or if the thought comes to mind, but i wouldn’t say it’s rude to not. if you’re thirsty, just ask and i’ll be happy to get your something.

    5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic?

    this would get a side-eye from me. i would definitely be thinking, what the hell? but sidenote: a friend told me that a dude she was having a marathon session with once got up and showered before finishing. then he came back and finished. so weird. i thought it was both rude and ultra-hygenic.

    6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners?

    i don’t think it’s rude. sometimes you just go to sleep. sometimes you have to pee, so you can clean yourself up. sometimes you just want to lay there. as with the drink, if you need it, ask and i will happily provide. but i don’t think it’s rude if i don’t.

    7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night?

    i don’t know if it’s bad manners, but i would never assume that i can spend the night unless it’s been previously established that my spending the night is cool.

    8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare?

    cab fare is n/a to me because i drive and have driven all my adult life. but if i didn’t, i would not expect the dude to give me cab fare. why?? i made the decision to go over there. assuming i took a cab there in the first place, i can get a cab home. he could call the cab for me, but i would never expect someone else to pay for it.

    9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude?

    if you’re both awake, then yes. but if i’m leaving and he’s sleeping, i can let myself out.

    10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole?

    yes. unless it sucked.

  • Reecie says:

    1. I wear makeup but I’ve never had a problem of it getting on stuff. I guess I don’t wear too much, but I only wash my face before bed–if I’m expecting to sleep over, its coming off with other nightly duties. not bad manners
    2. yes. at least ask if they want you to make the bed or remove the sheets if it was a messy situation.
    3. I dont think I’ve ever said thank you or been told thank you. should be understood if it was good or not–no thanks needed.
    4. I think its good manners to offer…especially as you are getting up to get your own.
    5. leaping up right after is pretty rude to me.
    6. failure to provide cleanup is absolutely bad manners.
    7. nope its not, sometimes its just not that kind of party.
    8. I can’t believe but I agree with Dr. J on this. if I found my way there, I can find my way home. If you really liked me you’d take me home, not pay for public transpo. lol
    9. yes. very very rude.
    10. also rude.

  • GirlSixx says:

    1. Yes ladies take the face off before hitting the sheets, nothing worse then waking up with a dirty pillow and raccoon eyes

    2. No, because when I leave HE is leaving too.

    3. Thank you..?? o__O nah, no need — they will know.

    4. No, they are free to get their ass up and get their own beverage “And bring me one too, I’m parched” :o )

    5. This is just plain Rude, like really. It’s okay that I am laying here with jeez on my stomach, but you can’t handle a little dried up kitty juice on your hands and face. Stopit!!!!!

    6. I’m on the fence with this one, I never had to get one

    7. Yes, this assumption can get your feelings hurt.

    8. Don’t do cabs, buses, mass transit except for commuting to work so I can’t even answer this.

    9. Well call me Ebenezer Scrooge, I have yet to walk a guest to door, we say our goodbyes bedside. Now if he ever let me leave his place and not walk me to his door, that’ll be his LAST. *YeahI’mSelfish

    10. All depends on the situation… (one night stand, random, cut buddy, etc.) those 3 don’t warrant “morning after calls”

  • 1. Depends on how much make-up she has caked on. Sex masks left on pillows after face down/ass up = No Bueno!
    2. Yes, but only if you didn’t make them cum more often than they usually do.
    3. Only if you’ve given her a mouthful.
    4. Yes, but only if you WANT additional rounds. Replenishment of electrolytes is crucial to subsequent rounds!
    5. Both.
    6. Very. Unless it’s a train. But who does trains post-30 though?
    7. Hella! One should never assume; It makes an ass outta you and that ain’t alright with me!
    8. It’s rude only if he picked her up and brought her there. Or if she swallows enthusiastically.
    9. Yeah, but you should never leave it up to them to leave your place regardless. You may wake up next morning to them curled up asleep at the door wearing your college track uniform.
    10.Nah, he’s thoughtfully telling her not to fuck with him any more. Ever.

  • max says:

    Okay I’m gonna weigh in on this since the pain of not voicing my opinion for once in my life is too great to endure:

    1. I do think it’s rude to roll around someone’s sheets with a full face of makeup on. Which doesn’t mean I’ve never done it, but I feel bad.

    2. I don’t think it’s rude not to make the bed. It’s nice if you do, but I wouldn’t fault someone if they did not.
    Not that I would ever leave someone unattended in my home like that.

    3. It’s impolite to not show appreciation. I don’t now if you have to actually say thank you; although I have said it on many occasions.

    4. I think if a man blows your back out and is lying there panting and heaving, offering him some water is the mannerly thing to do.

    5. It’s kinda rude, but better than leisurely washing your balls in my sink.

    6. Part of being a good hostess is providing warm towels.

    7. Assuming you’re welcome to sleep at someone’s house is definitely rude.

    8. It hurts me to say this, but J has sold me on his “cab fare is for hoes” point of view. But ultimately I think showing complete lack of disregard to how a woman gets home after she fucks you is rude.

    9. Of course it’s rude not to walk your guest out.

    10. He is a rude asshole.

    • RedLady821 says:

      Yeah, J sold me on the whole cab fare thing too! I had a gf who was in that situation and the guy paid for her cab in quarters…like $10 worth of quarters. I would have been MORTIFIED. Co-sign on cabs=ho’s.

  • 1. Depends who are you. Wifey, No. Jump-off, Yes. I’ll be damned if some harlot has my sheets looking like they wrapped Ronald McDonald’s corpse in it.

    2. Wifey, No. Jump-Off…well let’s just say she wouldn’t be left alone with my plastic sporks let alone staying in my place unattended.

    3. It is the highest disrespect to say thank you. I would rather you apologize for squirting halfway across the room.

    4. But she just drank this — ahh, I guess a juice box is not too much to ask.

    5. Sheeeeiiiiiittt, I’m washing up at the same time I’m cumming..

    6. Failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel is just nasty. No sleeping in our dna unless we know each other like that.

    7. YES!

    8. What adult leaves their home without money/plans on getting back? That’s your OWN damn fault. If I don’t teach you this lesson, how will you ever learn.

    9. Once again, I won’t leave her unattended around my old Sega Genesis games with the cobwebs, so I’m walking you to the front door and making you keep your hands where my eyes can see.

    10. It’s better that a man does NOT contact her the day after. The fact that I have no more testosterone in my system and I’m not anxious to get it in anymore means I’m gonna be a little too honest.

  • Vanessa says:

    1. If a woman is wearing makeup and she’s at a man’s house and gets to boning, is it bad manners if she does not remove her makeup before writhing around on his sheets? – If it sparatically happens, obviously i’m not going to have time to take off my makeup..but if it’s a ”sleep over” kinda thing..and i’m getting ready for bed @ your house..then yes i’m going to take off my make up – - I hate when I fall asleep with my makeup on and it gets all over my pillows..so I would’nt wanna leave it all over yours.

    2. If you spend the night after thronxing and your host leaves the house before you do, is it bad manners if you don’t make their bed before you leave? – I think dudes should at least ATTEMPT to make the bed..make an effort. My ex couldn’t make a bed if his life depended on it..but when I’d leave & he’d leave after me…at least i’d see his attempt..

    3. Is it impolite to not say thank you after sex? I HATE when people say thank you after sex..like what do you mean “THANK YOU” . . i’m sure we showed our thankfullness while we were doing it..

    4. If the chex occurs at your place, are you obliged to offer a post-slam beverage? Yes, of course – I know i’m always mad thirsty when I’m done..so of course I’m going to offer him a drink too!

    5. Leaping up and jumping into the shower less than 5-minutes post-orgasm? Rude or just ultra-hygienic? That’s rude as hell..point blank..unless we’re going in there together cause its too damn hot..and it goes down again in the shower.

    6. Is failure to provide a post-sex cleanup towel bad manners? I have a box of Kleenex beside my bed at all times, so I hand them the box & they can do what they do..

    7. Is it bad manners to assume that fucking someone = an invitation to spend the night? It depends the level that we’re on..

    8. If a man fails to offer a woman with cab fare to get home post-fuck, is he rude? What if a woman is welcome to sleep at a man’s house after sex and opts not to, is he still obligated to provide cab fare? YES , he should offer the cab fare, both ways.

    9. If you don’t walk your guest to the door when they leave, are you rude? I don’t walk them to the door if i’m tired..I don’t give a shit..It’s probably rude, but I don’t care.

    10. (You guys had to know this one would be included) If a man doesn’t contact a woman the day after he fucks her for the first time is he a rude asshole? YES ASSHOLE .

  • J says:

    1. It depends on how close you are. sometimes that is just not something that happens before the horizontal hokey poky begins.

    2. I do not think it is bad manners, but it is a plus when someone does that. I know I have done it just to be considerate. I am always impressed when a woman cleans up my spot after she leaves. It says alot about her personality.

    3. Not at all. There are better ways to showcase your appreciation. Thank you’s go without saying for the most part. I have never said it, but my actions of spoken loud and clear!

    4. It is only good manners to offer a post op beverage. Keep the agua close and ready. hydration is a must to keep the juices flowing, wanted and unwanted.

    5. Depends on the circumstances of the romping. If in a rush and it is made plain, then no, but if this is someone you care for, stick around for a minute.

    6. No not at all. Wipes are a plus though.

    7. Not at all, but I think that is contingent on the parties involved. Some folks enjoy sleeping besides a warm body, while others just want to get the pleasure and keep it pushing.

    8. I have only paid Cab fare twice. Most women in Los Angeles have their car with them.

    9. That is rather rude.

    10. It is rude and it also says something about how someone views you. I take pride in “checking up” on that special lady. In the slim to never chance that she was god awful, maybe my opinion would change.

    PS. I love this blog. Keep it up. you spark an interest and I look forward to responding to more of your intuitive rhetoric.

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